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Dear Kaz,
I have developed a fetish for rubber and asphyxiation. About once a week I’ll dress from head to toe in a tight rubber catsuit when the urge becomes too much. I also wear a tight latex mask and then put plastic bags over my head and ropes around my neck to hold the bags tightly to my face until I start to run out of air.
The other day I must have wrapped the rope around my neck too many times as I was gasping for breath and it felt as if I managed to free myself just in time as I was gasping afterwards and had a tightness in my chest. I suppose this is part of the thrill for me but I do worry that I may be playing with fire. I would like to share my fetish with someone else but I’m so embarrassed I wouldn’t know where to start.
Jerry, 41, Dartford.
Woah Jerry put down the plastic bags! It seems that you have experienced a close shave with your fetish and this should be a wake-up call for you.
Rubber encasement and breathe play also known as asphyxiation is not an uncommon fetish, but it is certainly one that you need to practise with caution.
Arousal can peak when oxygen is lowered in the body and asphyxiation can heighten orgasm in some people. However, there is a very fine line between pleasure and fatality.
You mention that you believe the risk element is part of the thrill for you and this concerns me because it’s likely that it may happen again, but you may not be so lucky next time.
You also say that you are too embarrassed to share your fetish with anyone, but there are many dominatrice on the internet that specialise in fetishes such as breathe play. You will find them open minded, non-judgemental and many will enjoy the fetish as much as yourself. Furthermore, practising this with someone who is experienced and there to act as a safeguard would be a safe way of enjoying your fetish. Just make sure you choose someone who is experienced and knows what they are doing.
Two people exploring a fetish is always much more fun than flying solo! Be bold and contact someone who can help you with your fetish. I’m sure that you will be glad you did!
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