Hello Everyone,
This week we are talking about my favourite subject!!! Blow jobs, maybe you want to revamp your oral sex skills, or your a beginner I hope this column comes in handy.
Also if your thinking about giving bondage a little try here are the dos and do nots to start experimenting.
Chantelle xx
Next time you go down on your guy, he’ll be in for quite a surprise.
Today, I am going to show you 6 techniques to help you give your man the most enjoyable oral sex he has ever received. Perfect for keeping him happy and getting him to return the favour!
1. Foreplay: I am constantly surprised to hear that men don’t enjoy foreplay as much as women do. This is simply untrue. Men may never actually tell you that they like foreplay, but your guy will have much more powerful and enjoyable orgasms if you engage in foreplay with him before actually giving him a blow job. The same is true for regular sex. Thankfully, foreplay is pretty easy. Your man will enjoy most of the same things that you enjoy during foreplay.
Think about how you kiss him. Don’t just give him a peck on the cheek, pay some attention to the rest of his body too. Not just his neck and cheeks, try kissing him all over his stomach and back as well.
2. From The Base To The Tip: At this stage, your man will be very eager to start getting some oral sex from you. This is perfect. This next blow job technique is the perfect way to transition to giving him an actual blow job. Start by taking his trousers/briefs off so everything is easier to access. Gently hold the base of his penis in your hand and then use your tongue to slowly lick it from the base right to the tip. You can try licking from the tip down to the base of his cock too, but often you’ll find it to be a little awkward.
Rather than just constantly licking straight from the bottom to the top, try a few variations of this technique. Try moving your tongue from side-to-side as you make your way from the base to the tip. You’ll also find that your man loves it when you pay most of your attention to the top of his member.
3. Not Just In And Out: You’ll find that the 2 blow job techniques that I have just described will mostly help for the foreplay part. Now it’s time to actually start giving him a proper blow job. One of the major mistakes that girls constantly make is using the same old boring oral sex techniques over and over on their man, instead of using a little variation. The main blow job technique that is used over and over again is called the “In And Out.” This is when you simply take his penis in and out of your mouth with your lips wrapped around his shaft.
The thing is that most guys love this if you use it with other techniques like:
Keeping him in your mouth while using your tongue to “Twirl And Swirl” around it, massaging it as you do.
Using your tongue to focus on just the head of his penis.
Giving some attention to his testicles. You can lick them or take them into your mouth and gently suck and softly squeeze them.
4. Give Him A Helping Hand: Some girls think that using their hands is not actually an oral sex technique and is cheating. This is pretty ludicrous as it’s not cheating at all. In fact, your man will greatly appreciate it.The easiest way to use your hands when giving him a blow job is to just grab his shaft and slowly massage it up and down like you would when giving him regular hand job. When you combine this with using the “Twirl And Swirl” technique at the same time, you have a recipe for one happy guy.
But that’s not all you can do with your hands. Another great blow job technique is to use your hands to massage your man’s testicles while giving him taking him in your mouth at the same time.
5. Try Taking It Deep: The first 4 techniques will give you a great start to giving your man more enjoyable oral sex, but don’t just stop there; why not learn some more advanced techniques? Giving deep throat feels incredible to your man, but I’m not going to lie, it takes a bit of practice to get it right without it feeling horrible for you. The key is to consistently practice on something like a peeled banana or even a dildo until if feels relatively easy to do. Also, rather than telling your man that you’re going to give him deep throat, a better way is to just surprise him with it. Trust me when I say that he’ll be pleasantly surprised.
6. End On A Slow Note: When you use all of these blow job techniques, your man is going to have an incredibly enjoyable orgasm. When your man eventually cums, he will experience many things that you experience too when you orgasm. One of these things is the fact that his penis will become incredibly sensitive to touch, just like your clitoris is when you are having a clitoral orgasm. So when your man starts to orgasm, make sure that you are not applying too much pressure to his penis. Instead, reduce the speed of whatever you are doing and make all movements with your tongue, mouth and hands much softer.
Do these three things BEFORE you break out the handcuffs …
Different people normally have different sexual needs and fantasies where something that you may find normal/exciting may be frowned upon by others. There are some people who would like to know the process of getting involved in bondage and below are a few guidelines on how to go about it.
Find A Person Who Is Interested: An unwritten rule when you want to get involved in bondage is to make sure that you find a partner who’s also interested or willing to try it out. (If he or she isn’t, you just won’t have much fun.) Pressuring someone to do something that they don’t know or are not interested in can be, at a minimum, awkward, and more importantly, it could damage your relationship. It’s best to talk to the person before you get them involved in the process to be on the safe side.
Find A Person Who Is Interested: An unwritten rule when you want to get involved in bondage is to make sure that you find a partner who’s also interested or willing to try it out. (If he or she isn’t, you just won’t have much fun.) Pressuring someone to do something that they don’t know or are not interested in can be, at a minimum, awkward, and more importantly, it could damage your relationship. It’s best to talk to the person before you get them involved in the process to be on the safe side.
Get The Right Gear: For bondage to work out well, there are a couple of equipment items you need to have to fulfill the whole purpose. In some cases, especially if you are just starting out, you may not need a closet that is full of elaborate gear. A couple of ties, bungee cords and scarves can work out well. However, there are some people who might not do well with things such as fetish clothing, tools that are used for restrictions and many more to make certain they enjoy the entire process in the proper way.
People want to get involved in bondage for various reasons. There are some people who find it a great way to spice up a rather bland sex life. There are some people who consider it a very important thing that should be included in their sexual practices. For other people, they like the visual impact that it brings about thanks to the tools, clothing and equipment.
