Hello everyone,
We are now in summer woohoo, and let’s face it the best sex is summer sex!!!! Here are some reasons it is SO amazing!!!!
Also I am talking about fetishes, what to do if your partner has a fetish should you dump them or give it a go?
Chantelle xxx
What’s the best kind of sex? Summer sex of course.
There’s something about summer that kicks sex up a notch. There are early dismissals at work, an overall vibe of fun, and, of course, all the half-naked men roaming the beaches and parks. So, let’s celebrate our favourite season.
1. When the heat is up, the clothes come off. Summer is all about a lot of exposed bodies. With all that skin roaming free, your mind can’t help but wander.
2. Forget fireworks—you can have waterworks. When water temperatures rise, you’re no longer confined to the shower if you want a little wet-and-wild action. Grab a hose in the garden, the sea, a swimming pool. Jacuzzi?? The list goes on.
3. You can get it on in the great outdoors. If you steer clear of children’s parks, packed campgrounds, and crowded public venues, the outdoor world is your oyster. Get frisky while the sun sets in your backyard, or park your car at a scenic spot for a heated makeout that can lead to more.
4. Sweating arouses you. After a hot, sweaty run, you just want to jump into the shower with someone.
5. You’re in the best shape of the year. We work our butts off, quite literally, to be ready for bikini/speedo season. And that kind of body confidence translates into fearless fun during sex.
6. Road trips and sexy adventures.Summer is the season for weekend trips and changes of scenery. In case you didn’t know, vacation sex is a whole ‘nother kind of amazing.
7. Summer vibes are playful. You’re likely partaking in canoeing, picnicking, lounging outdoors, or grilling either way, happy vibes are ever-present. People bring those feel-good emotions into the bedroom.
8. The rebel inside comes out in the summer. The summer heat brings out the animal inside. Blindfolds, bondage, or otherwise adventurous sex? Bring it on.
9. Sunblock. Because when you ask your partner to rub it on from your shoulders to your toes, you know they’re taking a mental note of places they want to touch you again later.
How to handle someone that has a sex fetish???
Fetishes come in all shapes and sizes. Your mailman might have a foot fetish. Your accountant might be someone’s sex slave. Your best friend just might be the one whipping submissives (like your accountant, for example).
Thanks to the Internet, fetishes are more present and public than ever before. More pornography is made to cater to specific fetishes, and even pop culture has taken notice of some. But just because the public is aware of the existence of fetishes doesn’t mean the true fetishists feel any safer in revealing themselves. Most of them know very well that revealing their particular fetish to their partner could very well be seen as a deal-breaker. There’s still a stigma attached to men and women with kinks, even though (much like being attracted to women or men by nature) fetishists can’t help being turned on by whatever it is that turns them on. It’s just a sexual thing that has no impact on their ability to love or interact with others.
If you find out someone you’re dating has some sort of sexual fetish, don’t be scared. Don’t immediately back out of what could otherwise be a great partnership. Give it a chance you might find that you like it! unless, of course, it’s dangerous or demeaning in any way. At the end of the day you should never do something you really don’t want to do, regardless of how much you care about someone.
I vote to go ahead and try it if it’s harmless. Your partner will be grateful at the very least, and at the most, you might get super turned on by seeing them super turned on. If you find that it’s really not for you, just say so. Your partner should be understanding of this and hopefully willing to have vanilla sex with you too. If they’re not, that’s when you should call it quits. Negotiations can always be made in the bedroom so that both people are happy; if one person expects to get his or her way every time, it will never be pleasurable for both of you.
