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So we are in full swing for the party season now with Christmas parties everywhere, unfortunately, we are not able to attend them all but we wish you all a very Merry Christmas and if we miss your party we are truly sorry.
Looking on Fab there were lots of interesting sounding parties at clubs last week and even more this week. As the team work so hard behind the scenes I took them out for a Christmas meal this week, our Vanilla party took us from eating in China Town to a few clubs for a boogie and what a night it was, I can’t divulge who was caught snogging who under the mistletoe though!

Anyway enough about us and more about your places of indulgence! So we decided to head up north and travelled to Sheffield to attend Le Chambre. We had heard a lot about it recently and thought we would pop in after seeing this review:

“First time ever going to any club. All nerves out the window from the moment your welcomed. Amazing staff amazing rooms for all kinks and the fantastic company that turn up. Not my last visit to this place will defo be back for more. Special thanks to John for showing me around and Kez for being the life of the party!
Date: 16 December 2017”

So we had a great time and met some really nice people. The decor was great and we especially like the murals on the walls, you can see that someone has put a lot of effort in here. Le Chambre is a bit of a celebrity on the scene having been featured on all the major tv channels as well as on Sky in programmes such as Sex and The City, and also as a location in a few films. We joined South Yorkshires kinky elite and had a brilliant night meeting new friends who we hope to catch up with again very soon.

So party plans for New Year’s Eve are all done and we can’t wait to see you all down at Eureka for the bash of the year. Have you chosen your perfect outfit yet? Or more importantly what goes under it! Don’ forget the dress code is Glitz and Glamour so really anything goes as long as it’s fabulous! Unfortunately, accommodation has now sold out but Eureka will be allowing guests to stay overnight in the main clubhouse so you can just bring along your bedding and bed down in there, I doubt the party will end!

Christmas can be a stressful time, don’t let it affect your sex life…

Dear Dr
During a row with my wife, she admitted that she has never had an orgasm with me and has been faking it for the last 10 years. We made up after the argument but I can’t get it out of my head and it has put me off sex. How can I make her cum?

Are you sure she wasn’t just saying it to hurt you? Many people say nasty things during a row which they later regret. As with all things sexual, communication is key. Firstly find out if she said it because it’s true or to hurt you. If it is true then ask her why she felt the need to fake it and if she orgasms alone. Every woman is different, there is no fail-safe move to guarantee an orgasm so talk to her about what she likes, get her to show you, watching her masturbate can be a huge turn on for you both and you will witness first hand how she likes to be touched. The majority of women do not climax from penetration alone and will require either clitoral or g-spot stimulation to reach their peak. Invest in a good vibrator to use during foreplay and remember the more foreplay the more chance she will have of cumming. Seriously, foreplay, foreplay, foreplay!! However she likes it, and concentrate on her most erogenous zones, don’t rush it, sex is a marathon, not a sprint. Enjoy each other’s bodies, be aware of her signals and you will get there in the end. Have fun exploring your wife again!

Hi. please help. My new boyfriend asked if we can try teabagging but I don’t know what it is and was too embarrassed to ask so I just said maybe. Is it something women like or should I just not mention it again and hope he forgets about it?

Well hello, you should never feel embarrassed about not knowing a sexual act, we can’t all know the entire Kama Sutra from cover to cover and often it is the slang term for an act that people don’t know. Teabagging is essentially giving attention to the testicular area of a man. This could be licking, sucking or merely being an open receptacle for them to be dipped in to. It is called teabagging as dipping the balls into an open mouth resembles dipping a tea bag into a hot mug of water. As to whether you should do it or not, well that really is up to you. Many women enjoy doing it or don’t mind whereas others do not like the idea of it so it is down to personal choice. It is a very sensitive area for men so many enjoy attention being given to what is often a forgotten erogenous zone. If you feel like giving it a go, next time you are down south giving oral sex try licking his balls, if you don’t mind that then you could try gently sucking on them. If you don’t want to do it then just explain to your boyfriend that it is not for you, you could also give them attention with your hand by gently cupping and massaging them. Enjoy your ball sack exploration.

From myself and everyone at Decadence69, we wish you a very Merry and Kinky Christmas and we hope to see you at parties over this very festive time! Whatever your plans are stay safe, stay happy and stay decadent!

Until next time, keep those questions coming and stay decadent. Email

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