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Greetings and salutations my lovely kinky friends.
Wanting to give out a bit of support to some lovely ladies I ‘know’ online this week as it is very important in this industry to champion each other.
Firstly, author Louisa Berry whose debut novel is a triumph. ‘Vanilla Extract” is centred around a newly single divorcee discovering her sexuality and exploring the world of swinging. The Protagonist is Lou who meanders her way through carnal encounters whilst expanding her sexual discovery. From the first page of the book, the reader is left knowing that this is going to be a ride almost as exciting as those that Lou is having throughout the 17 lust filled chapters. Lou expands her sexual circle through the book by meeting many sexual partners and exploring the swinging lifestyle however by the final page she is unsure if this is the life for her. Will she decide that it was a fun chapter of her life and return to vanilla relationships or will she miss the hedonistic pleasures she had experienced? Will there be a second instalment so we can find out? One can only hope.
Secondly, ProDomme Mistress Molly made her debut appearance as resident Mistress for Kinky Consent. I understand that the ruthless Mistress Molly had slaves drooling at her feet whilst she proved her credentials as a sissy trainer at the launch party. Unfortunately, I was unable to attend but my sources tell me that it was a brilliant night at Klub Kink in Dudley and is being repeated on June 9th with a Kinky Circus of all things. Hopefully, the delectable Molly will once again be in attendance, dolling out her own brand of fiendish fun.
This week we were up in Scotland so took the rare chance to stop by the After Eight Club in Edinburgh, you can’t beat a sexy accent. The relaxed atmosphere and jovial hosts always make us feel welcome. The club is subtly decorated club is decked out with comfortable beds and there’s lots of fun to be had with the new swing and dungeon. If you are ever over the border make sure you stop by have a play in one of the 6 dedicated rooms. They even supply the soft drinks if you bring the alcohol.
The surgery is open, how can I help you this week?
Dear Dr
My partner and I have been to lots of nights at swingers clubs and have recently started exploring BDSM. We were wondering if it would be best to explore this in the clubs we are used to or try out a dedicated BDSM club?
Thanks
Hello there
Sounds like you are both enjoying your time expanding your sexual horizons and wherever you choose to do that depends on where you feel comfortable. A lot of swingers clubs now have dungeons or BDSM dedicated playrooms so if you are already comfortable at those venues they might be a good place to start. If you would like to add a little more intensity to your Fetish fun then a dedicated club would be a great next step. Find a club that either offers a curious night or welcomes newbies, a lot of clubs will have someone to show you around and show you the ropes (pun intended). Wherever you decide to play make sure you feel comfortable and secure and of course, have a lot of fun!
Until next time, keep those questions coming and stay decadent.
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