The awards are cumming, are you?

Sponsored by TheAdultClub.co.uk

As you may remember I attended last years UK Glamour Awards which was a great night out meeting new friends and chatting with those of old, (check out my column “From Paradise to the Glamour Awards). Well, this year’s awards are well underway with Twitter being saturated with votes for the models over the many different categories. This year’s awards have a varied mix of sponsors with cam site Babelicious.online, our very own Daily Sport, gentleman’s club Spearmint Rhino (where last years awards were held and will be again this year), well-known lads mag Nuts Magazine Online, filming studio Visionary Studios UK and alternative lifestyle club Eureka. With such an amazing group of companies behind it, I’m sure this year’s awards ceremony will go with a bang. If you haven’t voted yet I suggest you get on with it and while you’re at it book your tickets for the ceremony and rub shoulders with glamour models and celebrities, if you’re very lucky you may even get to meet me!

This bank holiday weekend I plan to pop down to Kent to once again hang out at Eureka Lifestyle Club, certainly a favourite with us at Decadence towers and it’s always a joy to see our old friends there and relax in their opulent venue. Check out my column “Dr Decadence parties anonymously with the UK Glamour Awards girls at Eureka” to read what happened last year at the UK’s premier libertine lifestyle club. Not only is it their big weekender but they have also released the official Eureka single with Cream and Jazzy Jim, the double single can be purchased via iTunes.

Make sure to get your club and party reviews coming in, tell the world which are the best and worst swinging and BDSM venues that you have attended. Maybe you have found a hidden gem or have been disappointed by a well-known location, either way, tell the rest of the community.

“Last weekend I had my first experience of Jaydees in Bedfordshire and I was definitely impressed. Loved the couples only area upstairs and having a spin around the pole on the dancefloor. I was well attended to in the Greedy girl room and left with a big smile on my face. Thanks, Jaydees. See you soon, D”

Oh yes, Jaydees in the shires is a firm favourite with the Decadence team and a venue we are overdue a visit to.

Surgery is open, how can the Doctor help you this week?

Hi Dr

I am very inhibited in bed and have only just had my first solo orgasm, I have never had an orgasm with my husband. Is it too late to change my sex life and make it more fulfilling?

Thanks

Hi P,

Thank you for writing in. It is never too late to explore your sexuality and congratulations on your solo orgasm. Solo play is a great way to explore what you enjoy and what excites you. Once you know that on your own you can guide your husband to be able to hit your sweet spots. Have you spoken to your husband about not having orgasms or have you been faking them? Either way, try to open up to him and explain that you want to spend more time exploring each others bodies and finding new ways to excite each other. Try to put aside some time such as an evening or better still a weekend where you have nothing else to do other than spend time in bed together. Talk, experiment, try out new positions and toys…generally explore each other and yourselves. Let us know how it goes and here’s to many more orgasms, solo or not!

Right then party people, until next time – stay decadent!