Hello Everyone,
So it’s been a while since I covered blow job tips. And for any new readers this is one of my favourite topics so thought id share some top tips either for you, or maybe you would like your partner to have a little read.
Also booty calls are better than one night stands. Read on to find out why.
Chantelle xx
Want to give the best blow jobs? Read on.
Today, I am going to tell you 6 techniques to help you give your man the most enjoyable oral sex he has ever received. Perfect for keeping him happy and getting him to return the favour!
1. Foreplay
I am constantly surprised to hear that men supposedly don’t enjoy foreplay as much as women do. This is simply untrue. Men may never actually tell you that they like foreplay, but your guy will have much more powerful and enjoyable orgasms if you engage in foreplay with him before actually giving him a blow job. The same is true for regular sex. Thankfully, foreplay is pretty easy. Your man will enjoy most of the same things that you enjoy during foreplay.
2. From the bottom to the top
At this stage, your man will be very eager to start getting some oral sex from you. This is perfect. This next blow job technique is the perfect way to transition to giving him an actual blow job. Start by taking his trousers/briefs off so everything is easier to access. Gently hold the base of his penis in your hand and then use your tongue to slowly lick it from the base right to the tip. You can try licking from the tip down to the base of his cock too, but often you’ll find it to be a little awkward.
Rather than just constantly licking straight from the bottom to the top, try a few variations of this technique. Try moving your tongue from side-to-side as you make your way from the base to the tip. You’ll also find that your man loves it when you pay most of your attention to the top of his member.
3. Not just in and out
You’ll find that the 2 blow job techniques that I have just described will mostly help for the foreplay part. Now it’s time to actually start giving him a proper blow job. One of the major mistakes that girls constantly make is using the same old boring oral sex techniques over and over on their man, instead of using a little variation. The main blow job technique that is used over and over again is called the “In And Out.” This is when you simply take his penis in and out of your mouth with your lips wrapped around his shaft.
The thing is that most guys love this if you use it with other techniques like:
Keeping him in your mouth while using your tongue to “Twirl And Swirl” around it, massaging it as you do.
Using your tongue to focus on just the head of his penis.
Giving some attention to his testicles. You can lick them or take them into your mouth and gently suck and softly squeeze them.
4. Lend a hand
Some girls think that using their hands is not actually an oral sex technique and is cheating. This is pretty ludicrous as it’s not cheating at all. In fact, your man will greatly appreciate it.The easiest way to use your hands when giving him a blow job is to just grab his shaft and slowly massage it up and down like you would when giving him regular hand job. When you combine this with using the “Twirl And Swirl” technique at the same time, you have a recipe for one happy guy.
But that’s not all you can do with your hands. Another great blow job technique is to use your hands to massage your man’s testicles while giving him taking him in your mouth at the same time.
Are booty calls BETTER?
Going through a dry spell? According to a sex study, people seeking better sex lives might consider becoming someone’s booty call. That’s right — science has found casual sex is, generally, good sex, but more so in a friends-with-benefits arrangement rather than in the context of a one night stand.
After gathering 300 college students who had been in booty calls, one night stands and committed relationships during the past year, a researcher asked them how often they had performed certain acts while in those relationships. The acts ranged from sexual ones like penetration and oral sex, to lovey-dovey ones like hand-holding, hugging and kissing.
After comparing the frequency of different acts against the type of relationship they occurred in, They concluded that while booty calls are (understandably) less emotional than committed relationships, they are more sexually fulfilling than one-night stands.
1. Booty Calls = Better Sex
Unlike committed relationships, booty calls are totally contingent on hookups, so to maintain its status as a casual relationship, participants need to keep having good sex with each other while limiting time spent without it. For booty calls, less distractions equals more concentrated effort into improving your sex life.
2. Booty Calls Are Great For Experimentation
Since booty calls fall somewhere between one-night stands and committed relationships, they enjoy the benefits of longevity without the expectation of an arising emotional intimacy. That is, booty call relationships give participants more opportunities to experiment with each other than during one-night stands. Even if you enjoy kinky stuff, you probably wouldn’t bust out the handcuffs during your first time with someone. After a tenth, eleventh, heck, even third time with a booty call, you might feel more comfortable revealing your freaky side.
3. Booty Callers Take More Sexual Risks
People who engage in booty calls may be more sexually adventurous, people who enjoy casual sex have a more “unrestricted sexuality” than those who shy away from them.
