Hello everyone
So this week I am giving you the best games to play to spice things up and add a sexual injection into your relationship. Also have you ever wondered why men are so into strip clubs? Now you’ll know.
Chantelle xx
Bring all new meaning to foreplay with these kinky games.
I don’t think there’s an easier way to spice things up and inject some fun into your relationship than by using some of these hot and kinky sex games with your partner. You’ll find that some of them are quite kinky and a little out there, while others may even seem tame.
The key is finding the ones that excite both you and your man and then trying them out with him. So let’s learn some hot and fun foreplay/sex games.
1. This foreplay game is so easy to play and thankfully it doesn’t require any craziness or kinkiness from either of you.
To play it, both you and your man start off in your underwear. So your man will be in a pair of briefs of boxer shorts and you will be in a pair of panties and a bra. Next you need to hop into bed or just find somewhere comfortable around the house, like the living room. The goal that both of you will have during this game is to try to make the other person “break” and initiate or ask for sex (oral, anal or vaginal).
To do this, you need to use all the techniques in your arsenal, from kissing to massaging your man and even running your hands over his crotch and massaging that too. Meanwhile, he will do the exact same to you, trying his best to turn you on and make you “break” and initiate or ask for sex.
The main rule that both of you must observe when playing this game is that neither you or your man can take off your underwear, unless one of you can’t take it anymore and “breaks.”
Wondering with this foreplay game works so well? The simple reason is that it’s fantastic at building sexual tension all the way up to the point where one of you will literally do almost anything for sex.
2. This is a really awesome variation of the previous foreplay game. This time, instead of having your underwear on, take it off. The rules are exactly the same, except this time, you can both tease each other right up to the point where your man is just barely entering you with “just the tip” of his penis. You can even tease him with oral sex by licking his penis, with your tongue.
This sex games is, again, great for building sexual tension and keeping each other on edge. The goal is to try to make your man ask for or beg for the full thing, by turning him on as much as possible without giving in yourself. The fun thing is that your man is doing the exact same thing himself!
The winner is the person who holds out the longest. The loser has to do something for the winner, like giving the them oral sex or bringing them breakfast in bed.
3. Everyone’s heard of “strip poker,” as a foreplay game. The idea is that the person who loses each round has to take off a piece of clothing.
But the truth is, not everybody enjoys strip poker. The problem is that there are too many rules to learn when playing strip poker, to make it fun. It often ends up getting a bit too serious, which kills the mood.
Thankfully, there are a lot of fun alternatives to playing strip poker with your man. Instead of playing poker, you can try using quiz questions from a game like “Trivial Pursuit” or even questions based on your favorite book, TV show or movie. So what I always advise couples to do is, decide on a game that they both really enjoy (and they could still choose poker) and use that to decide who takes off their clothes.
Why men love strip clubs. Beside the obvious, of course.
Strippers and strip clubs are one of those polarizing gender phenomenon that divide men and women almost squarely down the middle. (We’d venture even more so than porn, actually.)
Most men (at least once in their lives, stop lying fellas) have been to and thoroughly enjoyed their stay at a strip club. Perhaps even shelling out a wrinkled £20 or two for a lap dance (or four). No judgements here!
On the flipside, a lubed-up, g-string dressed man asking a group of ladies to part with any of their cash so he can shake his butt in their face is an excellent way to earn a laugh. Believe us, we know. Ladies get strippers for a party and we get a good giggle. Men get strippers for a party and pray they don’t finish in their pants.
For the ones who do enjoy an outing to the nearest nudie bar, it’s usually about the visual overload of the body parts we fantasise about all day long. Finally we can be praised for overtly staring at a woman’s breasts. We might imagine what women around us look like naked and a strip club is an opportunity to live the dream.
As women, we sometimes forget men don’t get cat calls and sexual offers just by leaving the house. Fending off unwanted attention is as part of the female experience as PMS (if not more so — some chicks don’t get PMS).
Your average Joe is not the kind of guy at whom a gorgeous, scantily clad woman is likely to hurl herself. He’s just not attractive enough, or manly enough, or sexy enough, or powerful enough, or whatever enough.
But the moment he walks into a strip club, gorgeous, scantily clad women start hurling themselves at him — a thing that couldn’t happen unless he were incredibly attractive, manly, sexy, powerful, and whatever. In a way the excitement isn’t about the woman in front of him at all; it’s about how she allows him to see himself.
Woman are much more complicated when it comes to sexytimes. Often a naked woman’s body could quickly be clothed if the wrong move is played or words are said. While men must be respectful to ladies in a strip club, no worries about the strippers getting upset for being objectified and putting on a pair of pants in response.
Do we believe that the strippers are enjoying themselves? I think it’s a suspension of disbelief while you’re on the premises. So no, most guys who are inside the strip club don’t care in that moment if the strippers are enjoying themselves, and don’t allow themselves to think about it too much, or they’d lose their erections and head for the door.
