Giving your woman more confidence in the bedroom

Chantelle - 28.8.15Hello Everyone,

This week I am talking about making women feel more confident in the bedroom, if your partner isn’t that confident casually leave this article open on your laptop.

Also men there are right and wrong ways to approach and pull that girl you have your eye on this week I am talking about everything you should do to get you that girl!!

Chantelle x
Want to feel more confident in bed? Then please have a read of this…..

1. Buy some new, sexy undies. Yes, Bridget-style hold-everything-in-pants are practical and have their place, but they aren’t going to make you feel uber-gorgeous. Some lacy, matching lingerie might just do the job.

2. Try something new, whether it’s incorporating a blindfold, a sex toy or trying out a different position. Neither of you have expectations, so you can experiment together – and if it goes a bit wrong, laugh about it.

3. Don’t turn off the lights, but use lamps or candles to create soft, flattering mood lighting – you’ll feel more confident knowing you’re not under a glaringly bright light, and the room will have a sensual feel.

4. Take the lead – don’t wait for your partner to initiate sex every time. If you make the first move, it’s more likely to be when you’re feeling sexier, which bodes well. Plus, your partner will feel totally wanted.

5. And don’t always wait until bedtime – an afternoon session at a weekend could be much better.

6. Talk to each other before or after sex – if you’re concerned about your body, sex positions or anything else, discuss it with your partner. If he or she knows about your worries, they can try and help. And it might uncover some of their insecurities too, which you can help them overcome, making sex better all-round. Win.

7. Put on clean sheets and clean your bedroom – if your environment feels right, you will too.

8. Only sleep with someone you totally trust – someone who you can talk to and feel 100% comfortable with.

9. Have a shower. Knowing your body is clean will make you feel more comfortable letting someone else explore it.

10. Try to look at yourself in the same way you look at your sexual partner. Do you scrutinize their every lump, bump and hair? Absolutely not. So don’t do it to yourself.

Want to seduce a woman? Here’s your step to step guide to make it happen. Set your sights aim high and go in for the kill…….

Your approach
Her brain quickly vets your height and facial symmetry the moment you meet. Now convince her of your character. Approach confidently; don’t pretend to bump into her. Men tend to talk to each other at angles to avoid confrontation. But women face each other head-on and maintain eye contact. Do the same.

Your introduction
A good handshake isn’t a shortcut to her bed, but a bad one can doom you. Hands are loaded with tactile nerves and people with weak, clammy handshakes are perceived as shy and neurotic. So hold your drink in your left hand and give her a firm but not bone-crushing grasp. Pay attention to her grip as well, women who give firmer handshakes tend to be more adventurous.

Your voice
The most attractive women prefer deep-voiced men. It suggests high testosterone levels, a sign of strength and reproductive prowess. Push out air with your diaphragm, not your throat. This lengthens the column of air moving past your vocal cords. It’s like a built-in subwoofer.

Your icebreaker
Say something that will draw out details about her. “Your friends seem nice – how did you get to know them?” is a compliment and a window into her past. Forming a bond will release dopamine, a mood booster in her brain. Show off your interest with verbal nods of agreement (“uh-huh,” “go on”).

Your conversation
We all know to ask lots of questions and to avoid flat-out boasting. But don’t sell yourself short. Women listen very carefully for signs of status and wealth, let her curiosity draw out the details. Another crucial conversation tip: talk at the same pace she does and she’ll consider you intelligent, kind, con-fident, and ambitious.

Your body language
Attraction causes couples to mirror each other’s body language. But don’t be overeager to connect. Stay relaxed and let her set the tone. Fidgeting conveys nervousness and triggers the empathetic release of stress chemicals in her brain. Once she brushes your shoulder or thigh, reciprocate within a minute or two. Or touch her inner forearm, a nerve-rich zone that will create sparks.

Your deal closer
If you’ve made the right sort of first impression, she might be wondering how you are in bed. Consciously or not, she’s looking for signs that you’re patient and sensitive to the ways her body finds pleasure. So talk her through the jukebox options. Handle the darts delicately. Call out the scent notes of a bottle of wine. Show refined tastes in these areas and she’ll suspect you have others worth exploring – back at her place.

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