So the festive season is nearly over and wow did we overindulge, in every way possible! Tonight is the biggest party of the year when we at Decadence69 join up with the guys from Eureka for our big Glitz and Glamour New Year bash down in Kent. We will be partying with the 300 odd like minded guests attending and what a night it will be! There will be live music and a disco until 3 am and then the naughty after parties in the on-site accommodation, we can’t wait.
We hope you all had a wonderful time partying over the Xmas period, we sure did. There were so many parties to choose from on Xmas Eve but in the end, we decided to go to the New Paradise Club after this review piqued our interest:
“Went for the Christmas Party and WOW what a night it was. There were free drinks being handed out. Prosecco Yummy. Decorations were fantastic, it looked like a real Christmas grotto. Couples and Singles were there all having fun. There was lots of chat and banter and lots and lots of naughty playing. Miss Santa had a fantastic time. She had lots of Christmas sausage. Everybody was so friendly. Can’t wait to go back after Christmas. Date: 24 December 2017”
I must say we had a great time and met some really nice people. We were pleased to see lots of ladies had gone for the mini Santa outfits, of course, we loved the look as any hot-blooded male would.
So now is the time to start thinking about next year, we love hearing your ideas and feedback so if you would like to get in touch you can drop us an email to [email protected]
Our friends from Red Hot Ginger have sent us a lovely New Year’s gift so look out for the product review in the next few weeks.
Over to you, what do you need the Dr’s help with this week?
Hi Dr
I get really turned on by rough sex but my boyfriend is too gentle, he says he is worried about hurting me. It’s not a turn on unless it’s really rough. How can I get him to be a more manly?
Hi there, there does seem to be an increase in women liking their sex life to be rough and ready but to a lot of men physically hurting a woman goes against everything they have been taught. Also, society views women as the gentler sex and a lot of men feel that it is their role to protect them. Reassure him that it is not hurting you and that it is what you want, promise to tell him if it is ever too much and have a safe word in place so that he will know if it is ever going too far. Tell him when you want it harder by literally using the word and reassure him afterwards what a turn on it was. Enjoy your rough and tumble.
Hi Doctor
My boyfriend is turned on by the idea of watching me with another man but I’m not sure how I feel about it. Isn’t it still cheating?
Hello, the act of cheating is the actual sexual activity but the deceit, if your partner is in agreement and actively encouraging the act then it is not cheating. Many couples enjoy either bringing another single person into their sex life in a threesome capacity or swing with other couples. If you are open to the idea then you could try attending a swingers club together or set up a joint account on a swingers site and see if anyone takes your fancy. Ensure you are maintaining honesty and open communication at all times and only do what you feel comfortable doing.
Well, that’s it for this week and this year! Thank you to all our fans and followers and to all of the readers who have sent in questions. We wish you a very happy new year and we look forward to a prosperous 2018!
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